Imagine looking in the mirror and seeing someone else's face. Frightened? Confused? Wondering whether you're dreaming? The level of concern here connects us to why we get frustrated when other people don't seem to see us accurately. We act in an 'as if' universe, where our behavior is done 'as if' it is as immediately understandable and clear to everyone else as it is to ourselves. When the reality that others don't have immediate clear access to our own minds, comes crashing down with all the weight of their judgment, there's often an immediate feeling of annoyance, if not outright anger.